If you want to know someone without waiting much then ask them appropriate questions and will help you know them in a better way and maybe you will get to know things more than you asked for.
Starting a new relationship makes every girl nervous about the guy as no proper information of a guy is available.
Also if you didn’t ask anything during conversation then guy will think you are shy or not having interest in him so asking something will not harm your relation.
If you are meeting this person for the first time, there are a thousand thoughts running through your mind of what are they like, will they like me, will I like them.
You have been on a few dates with her already and you are calling her your girlfriend. But to be completely honest, I bet you are looking for inspiration on great questions you can ask her on your next few dates.
There will come the time when asking a girl deep questions is the start of a wonderful relationship.