We even used to go to the movies just me, dad, and my brother but now its me, her, dad, brother and the girlfriend's son. When families are transitioning and making changes it is often tricky and difficult for everyone. We often wish for the old and familiar because the new situations make us feel replaced and uncomfortable.It sounds like you have enjoyed your relationship with your father for a long time.
I find this gross and I'm really uncomfortable with this behavior.
I can't believe I'm saying this but I want my old dad back the one that was nicer and who used to watch TV shows with with me. A Sad Teen Dear Teen, I really get it and I'm glad that you wrote to me.
By putting more pressure on him, I pushed him away.
To avoid adding pressure, make sure that you know that you are both on the same path.
He already had two children already and even though in the first instance he said he wanted to have another with me, I knew that he had started to change his mind 3 months in as I could sense it and I ignored the signs as I didn't want to face the consequences of that outcome.