Category 1 emails are by far the most dull; usually it's about how the guy likes to "hit the gym" (a phrase I hate), works in finance, has a real job and would like to chat.
It's pretty much the equivalent of giving you two tickets to the gun show. Because they never mention or respond to anything from your profile, it's very possible they are sending this same email to multiple girls at once.
(Photo by Gabriel Olsen/Film Magic)LOS ANGELES, CA - OCTOBER 27: Caitlyn Jenner attends Logo TV's 'Beautiful As I Want To Be' Web Series Launch Party at The Standard Hotel on October 27, 2015 in Los Angeles, California.
When you meet someone new and start dating, be transparent about what you seek in the relationship from the beginning.
Be honest with yourself about your own desires and requirements. If you have an online dating profile, make it known what level of commitment and intimacy you are currently looking for. Because compromise is a fact of life and an integral part of any relationship.
"It hearkens back to this [misperception that people transition because of their sexual desires]( While gender identity and sexuality are distinct, they're still often conflated — but as Jenner makes clear, she transitioned because she was a woman, not because of her sexuality.
Jenner also acknowledges that surgery itself doesn't have any bearing on someone's gender identity: "Transitioning is about nothing else but your soul," she told BEVERLY HILLS, CA - FEBRUARY 28: TV personality Caitlyn Jenner arrives at the 2016 Vanity Fair Oscar Party Hosted By Graydon Carter at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on February 28, 2016 in Beverly Hills, California.
To clarify, I wrote that “men (gay and straight) seem quite capable of unattached sex.” In my experience, a fair amount of men did seem ready, willing and able to have sex at my beck and call. Whether you’re looking for someone or you’ve already met that intriguing new person, knowing your own needs in and wants for the relationship is the essential first step.