It's just so damn difficult for us to believe in them sometimes.
You will definitely feel like you have the upper hand in a relationship with an insecure woman, and a lot of dudes consider that a huge win.
But believe me when I tell you it’s like walking through a minefield, and in the best-case scenario, you’ll have more of a sidekick than an actual partner in life. A little is fine and perfectly normal, but you should be able to tell when she’s moving into bunny-boiler territory.
Honestly I didn’t think any relationship, past or future, could get any worse than that until a few months ago when I dated an insecure man. He was intelligent, ambitious, and had a promising career that paid him extremely well.
He had great conversation, opened doors, was considerate, and liked to talk about feelings.
So if you really like this girl, you should try to help her build up her self-esteem, and there’s a good chance that will fix the problem. Examine your own behavior and see if you’re contributing to the issue. We’re always checking women out, but unless you’re a complete douche, you’re probably not drooling with your eyes popping out of your head, and that’s basically what she’s accusing you of.