Adjust Your Mindset Cut Him Out of Your Life Enjoy Life Again Find Peace on Your Own Community Q&A If it's been weeks, months, or even years since you broke up with your ex-boyfriend, but all you can do is think of all the fun times you had together or wish you were still in his arms, then it's time to take some serious action to forget your ex so you can go back to enjoying your life.
I want to know where you stand on the whole “staying friends with your ex” thing. We’ve both been loving, attentive, kind and considerate.
Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few months of long-distance relationship with visits intermittent. Two things happened when I got here, however, which have me thinking. First, when I arrived I was very ill with a horrible cold.
My boyfriend was also sick (with food poisoning) but he avoided me physically. He explained it was because he didn’t want to get sick again in the last few days before his work ended before vacation. I had thought he’d lost interest but took what he said and accepted it.
Second, a few days ago while he was on skype with his dad, a text-message came to him on the phone. We hadn’t been private about these things in the past at all.
He says he wants to be with me forever and that he loves me- I mean, could see us being like that but does he really mean it or is he just saying what he thinks I want to hear?