The book focuses on Harris' disenchantment with the contemporary secular dating scene, and offers ideas for improvement, alternative dating/courting practices, and a view that singleness need not be a burden nor characterized by what Harris describes as "selfishness." Harris popularized the concept of "courting" as an alternative to regular secular dating, and in doing so has caused discussion regarding the appropriateness of his solutions to regular dating as well as the foundations on which he bases his reasoning.
In general, Harris believes that dating has become too inwardly focused.
Based on biblical principles of sincere love, true purity and purposeful singleness, this paperback provides an alternative to playing the dating game.
I Kissed Dating Goodbye is a 1997 book by Joshua Harris.
And so we strove passionately to attain the ideal of premarital purity he laid out for us.
Now, almost 20 years later, even Harris appears to be questioning whether his advice did more harm than good.
." On November 20, 2005 Harris gave a message to the church at which he is Senior Pastor, titled "Courtship, Schmourtship: What Really Matters in Relationships." In this message Harris acknowledged problems with how the singles related in his church.