That kind of quality, one of my interviewees said, is typical of Chinese men who care a lot about having a stable job, a home and being able to afford luxury brands.
She also said, of the Western men that she's dated, that they have a wider view of life.
Anti-Asian tirades don’t seem to have much of an effect. For instance, recently I googled for phrases like “Asians stealing our men”, which made for some particularly enjoyable reading.
Kind of refreshing and interesting for a history geek. The younger white ladies are more open to dating their asian male classmates, so there's hope for the future for asian dudes. (slightly less then asian ) latina and other "brown girls"4. If you look around you will see very few Asian guy / white girl pairings. I don't know why people keep bringing up these things.
Currently I would say in CAlifornia it looks something like this (very broad generalization here): White guys like not just for humping for for a long term relationship possibly leading to marriage: 1. There are some, but on the whole a lot more Asian girl / white guy pairings. If you like someone, go after them, if they don't like you for any number of reasons, move on.
Your close group of yellow brothers banded around you in defiant support of the devastation and pain inflicted upon you with comforting words like: “It couldn’t be helped.
White women just don’t like Asian guys…” “It’s not you, it’s the colour of your skin.” “That will teach you for thinking you could get a round-eye!
A good deal of more mature women, even previously married ones, are dating foreign men because, with them, they have another chance at love.